We know honesty is at the heart of any successful relationship. After all, honesty is the best policy but ladies, there are some things you should just not tell your significant other. It's not about being dishonest, it's simply that some things are best left unsaid.

(1) How many men you've slept with.

(2) The details of how you lost your virginity.

(3) You had an abortion.

(4) You cheated on an ex.

(5) Your friends' failed relationships. A man is very private, if you discuss his relationship, he'll think you're also telling your friends about him.

(6) That you had a threesome (with two guys).

(7)Your drunken escapades in college.

However ladies, if he asks any of the above, be honest, don't use these pointers as an excuse to lie.

Remember your first crush?

Remember when you and your first girlfriend Shubby 'bus a chuups' under the mango tree?

That's what Flair would like to find out; who was your first crush. When did puppy love bite you? Tell us!

One thing though, it has to be before you hit 13! Okay with that? Great, so email us at lifestyle@gleanerjm.com.