Flair's commandments - Women vs women

Published: Monday | September 21, 2009


Women vs women

Women, sometimes we are not nice to each other. If we are friends there are certain things we should NEVER do to one another. Check out the list below and look within yourself. If you are guilty, change your wicked ways.

1. Be overly critical: Only constructive criticisms are allowed; come on, she is your friend!

2. Gossip: This one is a no-no. Why would you talk about your friend with someone else?

3. Envy: Be happy for her achievements, relationships or whatever she has; be supportive.

4. Steal/date her boyfriend: Do we even need to say this one? Yes, it happens. Do not date your friend's ex or current boyfriend. Act like he doesn't exist, get your own.

5. Lend clothing and tell: As friends we share everything, including clothes, but don't tell other people you lent/gave it to her.

6. Compete for the same man: Why let a man come between friends? If your friend likes him, back off; there are other fish in the sea.

7. Steal: It's not all right to take your friend's stuff without permission, that's called stealing.

8. Reveal secrets: Even if you are no longer friends, she told you that in confidence. DO NOT reveal it.

9. Lie to spare feelings: Women, you know how you get; she's your friend and you want to be nice but don't lie. Find a nice way to tell the truth.

10. Don't turn your back on friends when they are down: This is the time when they need you the most. What if the tables were turned and you were neglected by your friend in your hour of need?