Q. I am a 23-year-old girl who has been living with a dark secret for the last five years.

When I was 18 I was sexually abused by an older man who was charged with my protection and welfare. He has been my family doctor since I was 15.

He robbed me of my innocence. I would have never assumed that he would have taken on this predatory role. I will never be able to understand how he could think that a girl, at 18, would possibly find a man his age physically attractive.

Since my encounter, I have had deep-rooted issues with intimacy, trust (particularly with older men), self-esteem, sleepless nights and nightmares. I am currently seeking professional help in the form of therapy.

I was initially reluctant to share my story for fear of the disgrace and embarrassment it would cause my family and myself. However, in light of recent prominent news reports of abused women/girls, who have fallen victims to repeat sex offenders, I feel compelled to seek advice.

I have confronted the person who victimised me and I am not sure if he continues to act in an inappropriate, unprofessional and unethical manner towards young girls in his care.

I could not live with myself, knowing my secret could have, prevented others from going through what I consider to be a 'living hell'

Should I report the abuse and to whom?

- J.T.

A Your story highlights the horrors of older men sexually abusing teenagers. It is a heinous crime which has long-lasting side effects.

You must be commended for your courage in confronting the offender and telling him about his ghastly behaviour. Furthermore, you are unselfishness in wanting to report your sexual molestation so that other innocent girls will not undergo a similar trauma and humiliation. I believe, confronting the offender, talking about it and seeking professional help, that you are on the way to recovery.

It is understandable that you were fearful that reporting the rape might cause shame and embarrassment. The truth is the court can be an intimidating place. Nevertheless, you know the truth about what happened and your motive for reporting it.

You could report it to the Jamaica Constabulary Force's Rape Unit. These persons are trained to help and can advise you how to advance the case in court. It is still possible, after five years, to take court action.

In addition, you could make a report to the Medical Council of Jamaica which is housed at the Ministry of Health building. You would need to write a letter to them and they would respond to you.

You did not mention wanting to sue the doctor perhaps because that might be difficult if you do not have any physical evidence. I am praying and hoping therapy will help you and that you will be able to love again.

Please consult a lawyer concerning your options.

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