The Editor, Sir:

Please allow me space to 'kill' two birds with one stone re the Positive Parenting article by 'Dr Noel Smith Williams: father, mother to his children' in The Gleaner of December 15.

I recall as a child, Mom saying constantly "education is the way to succeed". Although she barely finished elementary school, none of us children could use Patois. Consequently, we all had no problem using and writing good English.

'Thanks' and 'please' were commonly used words in our household. Sharing was a natural, from food to clothes. "The older one must set the example and the younger one must have respect for the older." This was Mom's mantra.

Re: "Honesty pays ..."

Mom always said: "What is not yours, leave it alone." Dad rarely had to say anything; Mom was the disciplinarian. Dad was a hard-working farmer who shouldered his family responsibilities by farming various rented hillside plots. He stepped in when the older boys showed signs of resistance.

Recently, I visited the Anchovy Primary School, my alma mater. As I spoke to the principal, Mr Lawrence, a student entered and gave him $100 which he had found outside. Shortly, a female student entered crying. She had lost $300 given to her by her mother.This student got at least $100 back. Mr Lawrence explained that this happened quite frequently.

Structured devotions

I participated in structured devotions in which values as well as national pride were inculcated. Children wearing the headgear reflective of non-Christian faith willingly participated. This could not happen in public schools in the United States of America.

Next, I spoke to students of four sixth-grade classes. I was impressed by the clean uniforms, the healthy looks, the desire to learn and the discipline displayed by these young citizens.

Inspite of all the rapacious activities that occur and which are exposed by the media, good things are happening. Perhaps, it is time for the adults to learn from the children.

Finally, an Ashanti proverb says: "The ruin of a nation begins in the homes of its people."

I am, etc.,

LOUIS A. HEMANS

lahemans@aol.com

Hyattsville, Maryland

Via Go-Jamaica