Yvonnie Bailey- Davidson
Dear Counsellor:
I am 42 years old and have just been diagnosed with cancer. I am bewildered, frightened, fearful and anxious. I don't know whom to turn to or what to do.
I am a Christian, but at this time I seem to have lost my faith. You know I was thinking that I would live to the age of 100, but now I have to treasure each day as if it was the last.
- Judith
Dear Judith:
Whenever we are given a diagnosis of cancer, it is as if we are told that death is imminent. It generates an emotional reaction that says either we fight or take flight. It is understandable that we should be fearful and concerned.
Not all diagnoses of cancer are death sentences. The lethality of the cancer depends on how advanced it is and how the cancer has spread to the other parts of the body. Cancers can be localised to one area of the body or an organ, but sometimes it has spread to other parts of the body.
If the cancer is not aggressive, is localised and can be removed completely, then there is a possibility of survival for many years. Sometimes, with medical or surgical management, the possibility of a cure exists.
Speak with your doctor and gather as much information as you can about the particular cancer. In your research, you will find that you will have many questions to ask. Emotional support is vital and, therefore, individuals should seek help from family and friends.
In talking to others about cancer, you will gather information on personal experiences. This will provide a guide for you on this new stage of life's journey.
Whenever one gets a diagnosis, one has to look on the concept of a healthy lifestyle. Nutrition, exercise, spirituality and risky behaviours come under the microscope at this time.
If the cancer is advanced and terminal, then an individual has to put his affairs in order and see what can be achieved in their remaining time, however short it may be.
Thankfully, these days with screening and the use of technology, surgical and medical regime, cancers can be successfully treated.
Contact Dr. Yvonnie Bailey-Davidson at 978-8602 or 791-1778; or email yvonniebd@hotmail.com.
