Her MOAN ZONE - Your woman's top 10 hot spots

By Lovern Hayes, Staff Reporter

"Tease me, tease me, tease me, tease me baby till I lose control, Ohh,

Tease me with your loving till I lose control, Tickle my body and soul, Oh yeah..."

WITH CHAKADEMUS and Pliers' hit 'Tease Me' wafting through the air, Denise felt herself losing control as her boyfriend Sean ran the tip of his tongue up her leg to that spot behind her knee. When he got there, he made circles, using the tip of his tongue. "Umph...," she sighed. She was in heaven.

She wanted him then and there, she couldn't bear to wait any longer but he was intent on making her scream. Ever so slowly he moved upwards placing feathery kisses along her heated flesh. Destination, the voluptuous twin peaks above her waist.

Flames of ecstasy engulfed her. She was going out of her mind. For Denise, this was sweet torture.

Sean was obviously an expert at pleasing his woman. Are you?

Many men are interested in knowing what turns their partner on. Some are afraid to ask, others are simply befuddled as to how to drive her absolutely crazy. They may have heard about the G-spot but don't know where to find it and so set out in search with a vengeance. In the meantime they ignore hot spots like her lips, ears, and back of the knees.

Flair asked a number of women to tell us what drives them wild. Some of their answers may surprise you. Here we've outlined our top 10 Moan Zones.

TOP 10 HOT SPOTS

10. INNER THIGHS

The inside of the thighs are highly sensitive to touching, stroking and licking. Use the tip of your fingers or your palm to lightly brush the area and follow up by stroking with the tip of your tongue.

9. BUTTOCKS

Some women are extremely sensitive to being stroked and caressed on their buttocks and many will enjoy it when you play around with their behinds. Some women also enjoy being mildly spanked (make sure to ask first) or having their buttocks squeezed. If she seems in ecstasy at the attention paid to her posterior, find out if she would like to experiment further.

8. BEHIND THE KNEES

You'd be surprised at how crazy a woman can become when you gently lick or nibble at the back of her knees. Be careful not to overdo it though ­ the area is very sensitive and it could become more of an annoyance if it gets too rough or tickle her too much.

7. FEET

Women enjoy having their feet touched and massaged. Some even enjoy having them licked and sucked. If your woman falls into this category, spend time caressing her soles, toes and ankles. However, these areas can be ticklish so try not to overdo it.

6. NAPE OF THE NECK

Just breathing on this part of their body gives many women goose bumps all over. So imagine your woman's reaction when you use your tongue or teeth (lightly) on her neck. This part of her body is also a good place to start a sensual massage. Remember to take it slowly.

5. EARS

Many women enjoy having their ears licked, sucked or kissed. Although blowing lightly in her ear is acceptable, note that this is not enjoyable for most women. However, whispering erotic thoughts and naughty words might send shivers up and down her spine.

4. WRISTS

This may come as a shock to most guys, but women love having their wrists nuzzled and nibbled by their lovers. The next time you're getting into foreplay with your woman, begin by kissing and caressing her wrists and take the time to tenderly trace the veins and tiny bones. Take her pulse and check out how impressed and turned on she'll be.

3. BREASTS (NIPPLES)

This is no surprise to anyone. This twin peak usually becomes erect with sexual excitement. The breasts are extremely sensitive to fondling, squeezing and caressing. Licking and sucking the nipples can blow her mind. Use the tip of your tongue, make circles. Blow hot air on the naked flesh. Experiment a little. But again guys, I must stress, DO NOT SUCK, BITE, SQUEEZE TOO HARD. They are attached to her body. Find out how your woman likes it and give it to her the way she wants.

2. VAGINA/CLITORIS

What can we say? This is a no-brainer. Yet, many men tend to get it wrong. Some spend way too much time looking for the G-spot or they give a quick squeeze or two in order to rush to the main event.

The clitoris can be stimulated by using the tongue, finger or, for the multi-talented Joe, both simultaneously. Some women like to guide their lovers as to the specific amount of pressure they enjoy, so let her response be your guide.

Guys, do not feel like a failure if you cannot find the G-spot, it is a little difficult to locate. Your woman may find the search worthwhile, but keep it gentle and fun, prodding and poking can be painful. By the way, the G-spot is an area inside the vagina that produces intense sexual feelings when stimulated. Once located, very gentle stimulation is guaranteed to send her into orbit.

And the number one female hot spot...

1. LIPS

Yes, it's true. Tantalise, titillate and taunt her with your lips. As you move in for some close-up action, let your lips graze her with a light-as-a-feather touch, and seductively tilt your head from side to side. Once you've warmed to her lips, slowly lick them with the tip of your tongue, then blow softly to cool them down.

Use your imagination. Use your lips, tongue and teeth to play with her top and bottom lips. Suck on the tip of her tongue gently at first, then pull it back into your mouth. She may be yours forever if you capture her with a kiss.

HOT SPOT RUNNERS-UP

Some spots which didn't make the top 10 list, but which can be noted are the middle of the lower back, navel and the fingers/hands.

Deliberately exploring yourself and your partner is the first step in discovering which areas of your bodies are the most sexually responsive. Varying the pressure of touching and stroking and experimenting with various materials ­ a silk scarf, soft brush, or a feather, for example ­ may help to identify previously undiscovered erogenous zones.

NEXT WEEK: Women, drive him wild. Hit his 10 hot spots and hear him beg for more.

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